Word of Warning

First of all I want to say this is my poster child and the hottest guy I know. If you are the copyright owner and want this pic removed please send me an e-mail with some kind of proof and I will take it down.

Diaper sites (at least this one) are saying you are giving away your copyright protections to them and can use your pics anyway they want. What a great way to sell a book at your expense. Facebook and Myspace that have both kicked me off don't ask for copyright privileges.

So yes, I've been kicked off of Myspace again. I think some guy on Craigslist flagged my pics because only the pics not so well done were flagged. There are jerks everywhere.

I've been having fun. Meeting many guys who wear diapers or want to try it with me. I'm getting better at telling them why I wear diapers and that helps.

I might start a diaper lovers website if I find the interest and the motivation. I have the know how for the most part. If someone wanted to partner with me, let me know. Rule number one, we don't demand copyright privileges to uploaded pictures of members.

Momentum Building

Another diaper lover over. This was the first time he wore a diaper. I wore my diaper and pick plastic panties. This was so sexual, felt so good. I'm going to get a diaper club together in this area. Loving diapers kind of lets you look past little things that might otherwise bother you in someone else. Two guys over tonight (at different times). all of us just in diapers or diapers and plastic panties. Such a turn on.

Thanks Dude!

I had my first diaper lover over tonight. He looked so damned hot, sexy as hell in a diaper. I gave him a pair of plastic panties. He was a young adult, slim, smart, and sexy as hell in a diaper (if I hadn't said so before). He wouldn't let me take pictures, even though I assured him no face shots would be used or would I ever disclose his identity. He wore diapers until upper teen years. Middle teens for bedwetting, and the remaining years he pretended to wet the bed so he could continue to wear them. He is interested in a diaper party. So, diaper lovers in the eastern, mid NC area, Start speaking up. Let's meet. After a group of 5 or 6 want a diaper party, we shall have one.

Nappy Diaper back on MySpace

Well, Myspace has allowed Nappy Diaper to come back. Don't ask me why. I had given up quite some time ago. Out of no where, I received an e-mail stating I was a member. I'm wondering about Facebook now. I'm not holding my breath.

I'm also posting again because of someone e-mailing me telling me they struggle with this issue and this blog helped. If anyone wants me to post a message or story, e-mail me or leave a comment and I'll put it on the front page.

WiredSafety

This video is fun to watch and makes a point.

You have to watch out who you contact. Some very strange people have been sending me messages!

Outside in Hawaii

Sometimes Boys Just Want To Have Fun

I'd rather enjoy something than be in pain and depression over it,

written by Anthony

I'm a 44 year old Gay White Male str8 acting. Non smoker. No drugs, not into Nelly Fems, Tattoos or Piercing and only social drinker.

I love the outdoors,traveling,cooking,landscaping and gardening,photography,cuddling,and long walks on the beach.

I'm a hopeless romanic and very domestic. I'm an Interior decorator as well. I have many other interests .

There is something magical about the ocean, I must have had a past life that involved the sea. I was probably a mermaid in my past life,LOL. Maybe that's why I gay this go around.LOL

I was a landscape/interior designer by trade. Had to change careers last year due to having a heat stoke and heat exhaustion.

I am just getting settled into my new place, with all the packing, unpacking, sorting and purging that comes with moving which I hate with a passion.


I have had to wear diapers, ever since I was in a car accident when I was 16. That was over 27 plus years ago, neediness to say wearing diapers was not a fun thing or sexual thing for me. For two years, my Junior and Senior years of Highschool I was paralyzed and in a wheel chair, I was in a full body cast and couldn’t take care of myself. My mom quit her job to take care of me, such as changing me, feeding me, bathing me and so on, I was quite embarrassed to say the least, but in time it became habit I guess, My mom and I are very close.

When I turned 18 I began to get feeling back in my legs and started therapy and did learn to walk again. My journey in life has never been easy, but I’m a fighter and survivor,and I have never gave up. This is just a tip of the iceberg in the story of my life. Maybe one day I will write a book of my life.

Until about three years ago, I still hated wearing diapers, a friend told me if I have to wear them, then learn to enjoy them.

Well After I learned there were people who had to wear for medical reasons and some who love to wear diapers for fun it changes my outlook ten fold.

I can say it has made a major change in my life. No pun intended.
I'm sure there are those of you who will read this and say your gross or sick, but you'll never understand what my life has been like.

I'd rather enjoy something than be in pain and depression over it, which was what my life was for a very long time.

I'm looking for friends who can understand and relate to this on some cosmic level. My dream is to find a LTR with a guy who can love me for who I am. Not what they want me to be, I will always be handicapped.

I was married for 9 years and had 3 beautiful children, but was never happy with a women, I knew I was GAY but wanted children and tried to live a str8 lifestyle to fulfill that dream. Nine years ago, we lost our son in an accident when he was only 18 months old, another reason my marriage failed, she never has gotten over that and hasn't tried to move on or forward. I have moved on and forward but there will always be a huge hole in my heart.

I'm lucky to have my own Guardian Angel who looks after me now.

Life is too short to be unhappy.

Hugs Anthony

Found written by Anthony

Dan Novak repeating something he heard "Don't judge a man until you have walked a mile in his shoes."

Facebook doesn't like a lot of people.

I and many others know how this feels. This was found at lilmissmei.blogspot.com. Click on the title link for more stories.

This is why you always wear a diaper if you're planning to get drunk

Starting the day out like this means you don't have to ask yourself:

Would you rather be in bed wearing this underwear...

Or in bed wearing this underwear?

There are worse things than making sure you have a nappy on. Which underwear would you rather be wearing?

Facebook!, Need diaper groups on facebook

Facebook!, Need diaper groups on facebook is a forum thread by a guy with two Facebook accounts, one his true idenity and one about wearing diapers he uses an alias for what could be safety and social acceptance reasons. Here is part of his post:

Hey all facebook users... Does anyone know of some good abdl facebook groups secret or not? If you have a hidden/secret group on facebook would you mind inviting me? My DL name on facebook is Brandon L from the Orlando, FL network. I have a normal account on there too but I do not feel like writing that one here at this time.

If no one does know any good facebook groups, is there anyone who would be interested in joining a hidding group if I create it? Let me know if you are interested in this.

-Brandon L

By the way I have found some non-hidden groups on there that are not true ABDL groups but are similar topics. These are all global groups and they are titled:
FeTiShFiNdErS
I <3 To Wear Diapers
I like people who pee there pants
I pee my pants
I seriously need a diaper... like all the time
I STILL PEE THE BED .. & PANTS
Pampers Appreciation Society
The Price is Right: Pamper's Edition
Wearing a diaper to the bar!
WHEN WE LAUGH... WE PEE!

Also one more thing: I did create a secret/hidden group now. It is title ABDLs. You will not be able to search for it and it will not appear on the members' profiles because it is a hidden group. So you can only join it by invitation. There let me know if you want to be invited to join. Thanks.
-Brandon L

As the above post suggests I'm not alone. As I can suggest, I'm not perfect but I can learn. Why Facebook took the stand of no forgiveness and no attempt at understanding why there were problems with my account to the point of total banishment without giving me one attempt to explain or apologize can feel painful to someone new at trying to reach out like this.

I also received another form letter from MySpace asking me to try the same things sent in previous form letters. These letters are not separate and by themselves. They contain all the previous e-mails showing I'm getting the same series of form letters. I don't know what feels worse, total banishment for being so degenerate the forgiveness or a willingness to listen to someone explain their position one time or getting a series of form letters that don't let you know if you have been totally banished.

I feel the need to respond to the comment on my last post:

After reading your blog posting, we would like to suggest another point of view. Diapers only keep the bed dry and often prolong suffering. They do not serve to treat the underlying cause, the deep sleep disorder. We work with the Enuresis Treatment Center. For 32 years, the Enuresis Treatment Center has successfully treated thousands of people from around the world who thought there was no hope for ending bedwetting. Bedwetting, or enuresis, is actually caused by deep sleep, not to be mistaken for healthy sleep. This deep sleep causes a disconnect between the brain and bladder, and the bedwetting occurs as a result. The Enuresis Treatment Center has put together an informative guide to understanding and treating bedwetting. This free bedwetting guide is available to download atwww.freebedwettingguide.com.

Maybe latter when I have more time I can discuss this response in a more detailed way. However, I will say a few quick things. I know this looks like spam, and for the most part I assume it is. But, an honest response can include helping the person make a living if the response is honest. We all can't do everything we do for free. So with that in mind, I'm giving them yet another link. I will say this, I've looked over most of their site.

I never came across a statement telling potential customers to talk with their doctor first. There are life threating heart arrhythmias that cause continued bed wetting. How responsible would these people be if someone went to them instead of a medical doctor first just to die of a heart condition?

They also come across to me as a type of organization I'm always suspect of, that is one that says don't listen to what others say, we have the magic answer no one else can see.

And, they claim a success rate of 97%. When the success rate of no intervention at all is 97% to 98.5% I'm not impressed with their own stated numbers. What are they offering that doing nothing offers? Just food for thought.